Sunday, 16 December 2012


PERTAMA:
Umur 1-7 tahun. Pada masa ini, Rasulullah SAW menyuruh kita untuk memanjakan, mengasihi dan menyayangi anak dengan kasih sayang yang tidak berbatas. Biarkan anak-anak bermandikan kasih sayang pada tahap ini.
KEDUA
Umur 7-14 tahun. Pada masa ini Rasulullah SAW menyuruh kita untuk mula menanamkan DISIPLIN kepada anak-anak dengan mengajar dan menyuruh mereka untuk mengerjakan solat. Bahkan apabila umurnya sudah sepuluh tahun, seorang ayah boleh memukul anaknya jika enggan mengerjakan solat.
Rasulullah SAW bersabda. “Perintahkanlah anak-anak kamu untuk sembahyang pada usia tujuh tahun; dan pukullah mereka kerana meninggalkannya pada usia sepuluh tahun; dan pisahkanlah di antara mereka (anak-anak kamu) di dalam tempat tidur.” – Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim
Berdasarkan pakar-pakar jiwa anak, sememangnya pada umur 7-14 tahun ini masa terbaik untuk menanamkan disiplin dan pembentukan sahsiah seorang anak. Pada fasa inilah seorang ayah akan menjadikan anak itu seorang muslim atau Yahudi, Nasrani dan Majusi seperti yang dikatakan oleh Rasulullah SAW dalam hadisnya bahawa setiap anak yang lahir dalam keadaan suci. Maka, ayah dan ibulah yang akan mencorakkannya.
KETIGA
Umur 14-21 tahun. Pada masa ini orang tua sudah MENUKAR penanaman disiplin dengan cara yang agak KERAS kepada yang RASIONAL. Orang tua sudah semestinya mendidik anak dengan cara menjadikannya sahabat dalam berdiskusi, mengajaknya ikut dalam membincangkan masalah keluarga dan diberikan satu-satu tanggungjawab dalam hal-hal tertentu di rumah. Hal ini penting agar anak berasa dirinya punyai tanggungjawab mengambil berat hal-hal dalam keluarga.
KEEMPAT
Umur lebih 21 tahun. Pada masa ini, orang tua sudah boleh melepaskan anaknya untuk belajar menempuh hidup akan tetapi tetap melihat perkembangannya dan memberikan nasihat serta peringatan-peringatan apabila anak tersalah atau terlupa.
Dalam kehidupan kita sebagai orang Islam, kadang-kadang pendidikan yang diajar oleh Rasulullah SAW itu tidak benar-benar diamalkan, bahkan ramai yang tidak mengamalkannya sama sekali.
Ada orang tua yang terlalu memanjakan anak sehingga umur 14 tahun dan baru mula mengajar dan menyuruhnya solat pada usia mereka 15 tahun sehingga mereka bukan sahaja enggan melakukannya malah marah kepada ibu bapanya. Jika kewajipan yg tertinggi (iaitu solat) yang telah diperintahkan ALLAH SWT Yang Maha Agung diabaikan apatah lagi dengan perintah dan suruhan orang lain termasuk ibu bapanya.
Kesimpulannya, masalah disiplin dan jenayah remaja dan pelajar muslim berkemungkinan terjadi kerana rapuhnya pendidikan iman dan cara didikan yang salah. Sebahagian ibu bapa menafikan hal ini kerana mereka tidak sedar kekerasan dan cara pendidikan yang mereka terapkan kepada anak-anak adalah secara membuta tuli tanpa melihat perkembangan umur anak-anak sehingga anak terasa dizalimi dan seterunya membesar dengan perasaan marah dan dendam kepada ibu bapa.
Sekiranya sebelum ini anda leka….Ianya masih BELUM TERLAMBAT…ajarlah dan ajaklah anak-anak anda untuk SOLAT….kerana ianya kunci bagi segala-galanya permasalah didunia ini…
Sabda Rasulullah SAW : “Solat itu tiang agama, barangsiapa yang mengerjakannya maka ia menegakkan agamanya dan barangsiapa yang meninggalkannya ia meruntuhkan agamanya.” – Hadis riwayat Al-Bahari dan Muslim
Dari Abdullah r.a., sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud, “Ditegakkan Islam atas lima perkara: pengakuan syahadah iaitu tiada Tuhan yang disembah dengan sebenarnya melainkan ALLAH, pengakuan bahawa Nabi Muhammad itu Rasulullah, mendirikan solat, mengeluarkan zakat, menunaikan fardhu haji dan berpuasa di bulan Ramadhan.” – Hadis Riwayat Muslim

Kenangan irsyad dengan pot2nya...
Kebahagiaan korang kebanggaan mama, sayang.
Sempoga kita bersama2 susah dan senang sampai akhir hayat.
Love u all!

Wah, kalau macam ni tiap2 minggu, mesti kurus.
Berjalan kaki sejauh 6 km.
Paling dikagumi anak-anak la.
Tabik la. he2

Rabu, 5 Disember 2012

Kesan Pembesaran Buah Dada Berlebihan

1.Masalah sakit belakang, leher dan bahu yang kronik 2.Keadaan kesihatan seperti arthritis , fibromyalgi dan masalah tulang belakang 3.Sakit kepala / migrain 4.Kedudukan tubuh yang lemah 5.Sesak nafas 6.Jangkitan bakteria dan ruam di bawah / antara buah dada 7.Kekenduran buah dada 8.Tanda di bahagian tali baju dalam dan boleh menyebabkan kulit melecet 9.Masalah tidur yang tidak selesa 10.Kebas / mencucuk 11.Membataskan pergerakan aktiviti / bersenam
Breast cancer is an uncontrolled growth of breast cells. To better understand breast cancer, it helps to understand how any cancer can develop.
Cancer occurs as a result of mutations, or abnormal changes, in the genes responsible for regulating the growth of cells and keeping them healthy. The genes are in each cell’s nucleus, which acts as the “control room” of each cell. Normally, the cells in our bodies replace themselves through an orderly process of cell growth: healthy new cells take over as old ones die out. But over time, mutations can “turn on” certain genes and “turn off” others in a cell. That changed cell gains the ability to keep dividing without control or order, producing more cells just like it and forming a tumor.
A tumor can be benign (not dangerous to health) or malignant (has the potential to be dangerous). Benign tumors are not considered cancerous: their cells are close to normal in appearance, they grow slowly, and they do not invade nearby tissues or spread to other parts of the body. Malignant tumors are cancerous. Left unchecked, malignant cells eventually can spread beyond the original tumor to other parts of the body.
The term “breast cancer” refers to a malignant tumor that has developed from cells in the breast. Usually breast cancer either begins in the cells of the lobules, which are the milk-producing glands, or the ducts, the passages that drain milk from the lobules to the nipple. Less commonly, breast cancer can begin in the stromal tissues, which include the fatty and fibrous connective tissues of the breast.
Breast Anatomy
Breast AnatomyLarger Version
Over time, cancer cells can invade nearby healthy breast tissue and make their way into the underarm lymph nodes, small organs that filter out foreign substances in the body. If cancer cells get into the lymph nodes, they then have a pathway into other parts of the body. The breast cancer’s stage refers to how far the cancer cells have spread beyond the original tumor (see Stages of Breast Cancer table for more information).
Breast cancer is always caused by a genetic abnormality (a “mistake” in the genetic material). However, only 5-10% of cancers are due to an abnormality inherited from your mother or father. About 90% of breast cancers are due to genetic abnormalities that happen as a result of the aging process and the “wear and tear” of life in general.
There are steps every person can take to help the body stay as healthy as possible and lower risk of breast cancer or a breast cancer recurrence (such as maintaining a healthy weight, not smoking, limiting alcohol, and exercising regularly). Learn what you can do to manage breast cancer risk factors.
Always remember, breast cancer is never anyone's fault. Feeling guilty, or telling yourself that breast cancer happened because of something you or anyone else did, is not productive.

Wednesday, 12 December 2012


Hem... rasanya sikit hari lagi, Mungkin awal tahun depan la. Nak sambung semula ssm stationary supplier. Harap makin banyak permintaan dan mudah2an setahun selepas itu dah boleh buka kedai sendiri. Kawan2 yang dikenali, harap dapat beri sokongan.
Tq

Wednesday, 5 December 2012


What Is Breast Cancer?

Breast cancer is an uncontrolled growth of breast cells. To better understand breast cancer, it helps to understand how any cancer can develop.
Cancer occurs as a result of mutations, or abnormal changes, in the genes responsible for regulating the growth of cells and keeping them healthy. The genes are in each cell’s nucleus, which acts as the “control room” of each cell. Normally, the cells in our bodies replace themselves through an orderly process of cell growth: healthy new cells take over as old ones die out. But over time, mutations can “turn on” certain genes and “turn off” others in a cell. That changed cell gains the ability to keep dividing without control or order, producing more cells just like it and forming a tumor.
A tumor can be benign (not dangerous to health) or malignant (has the potential to be dangerous). Benign tumors are not considered cancerous: their cells are close to normal in appearance, they grow slowly, and they do not invade nearby tissues or spread to other parts of the body. Malignant tumors are cancerous. Left unchecked, malignant cells eventually can spread beyond the original tumor to other parts of the body.
The term “breast cancer” refers to a malignant tumor that has developed from cells in the breast. Usually breast cancer either begins in the cells of the lobules, which are the milk-producing glands, or the ducts, the passages that drain milk from the lobules to the nipple. Less commonly, breast cancer can begin in the stromal tissues, which include the fatty and fibrous connective tissues of the breast.
Breast Anatomy
Breast AnatomyLarger Version
Over time, cancer cells can invade nearby healthy breast tissue and make their way into the underarm lymph nodes, small organs that filter out foreign substances in the body. If cancer cells get into the lymph nodes, they then have a pathway into other parts of the body. The breast cancer’s stage refers to how far the cancer cells have spread beyond the original tumor (see Stages of Breast Cancer table for more information).
Breast cancer is always caused by a genetic abnormality (a “mistake” in the genetic material). However, only 5-10% of cancers are due to an abnormality inherited from your mother or father. About 90% of breast cancers are due to genetic abnormalities that happen as a result of the aging process and the “wear and tear” of life in general.
There are steps every person can take to help the body stay as healthy as possible and lower risk of breast cancer or a breast cancer recurrence (such as maintaining a healthy weight, not smoking, limiting alcohol, and exercising regularly). Learn what you can do to manage breast cancer risk factors.
Always remember, breast cancer is never anyone's fault. Feeling guilty, or telling yourself that breast cancer happened because of something you or anyone else did, is not productive.

Stages of Breast Cancer

StageDefinition
Stage 0Cancer cells remain inside the breast duct, without invasion into normal adjacent breast tissue.
Stage IAThe tumor measures up to 2 cm 
AND 
the cancer has not spread outside the breast; no lymph nodes are involved
Stage IBThere is no tumor in the breast; instead, small groups of cancer cells -- larger than 0.2 millimeter but not larger than 2 millimeters – are found in the lymph nodes 
OR 
there is a tumor in the breast that is no larger than 2 centimeters, and there are small groups of cancer cells – larger than 0.2 millimeter but not larger than 2 millimeters – in the lymph nodes.
Stage IIANo tumor can be found in the breast, but cancer cells are found in the axillary lymph nodes (the lymph nodes under the arm) 
OR 
the tumor measures 2 centimeters or smaller and has spread to the axillary lymph nodes 
OR 
the tumor is larger than 2 but no larger than 5 centimeters and has not spread to the axillary lymph nodes.
Stage IIBThe tumor is larger than 2 but no larger than 5 centimeters and has spread to the axillary lymph nodes 
OR 
the tumor is larger than 5 centimeters but has not spread to the axillary lymph nodes.
Stage IIIANo tumor is found in the breast. Cancer is found in axillary lymph nodes that are sticking together or to other structures, or cancer may be found in lymph nodes near the breastbone 
OR 
the tumor is any size. Cancer has spread to the axillary lymph nodes, which are sticking together or to other structures, or cancer may be found in lymph nodes near the breastbone.
Stage IIIBThe tumor may be any size and has spread to the chest wall and/or skin of the breast 
AND 
may have spread to axillary lymph nodes that are clumped together or sticking to other structures, or cancer may have spread to lymph nodes near the breastbone. 

Inflammatory breast cancer is considered at least stage IIIB.
Stage IIICThere may either be no sign of cancer in the breast or a tumor may be any size and may have spread to the chest wall and/or the skin of the breast 
AND 
the cancer has spread to lymph nodes either above or below the collarbone 
AND 
the cancer may have spread to axillary lymph nodes or to lymph nodes near the breastbone.
Stage IVThe cancer has spread — or metastasized — to other parts of the body.